How to stop being insecure ?
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What are Insecurities?

Insecurities are the ones that make us feel a lack of confidence. We may be insecure about how we look, how we talk, and how our personalities are. First, we need to stop being insecure. We all feel insecure about something in life but when it becomes intense we might lack new opportunities in our life due to low self-esteem. Let’s know how to stop being Insecure in 10 simple ways.

What Causes Insecurities?

This might cause due to bullying in schools.

Constantly scrolling on social media makes us compare with others and decreases our confidence levels.

Doubting ourselves makes us have low confidence.

Due to self-sabotaging.

This is all because we lack self-esteem.

10 Insecurities  That People Suffer From

  • Insecure about Height
  • Insecure about Weight
  • Insecure about Colour
  • Insecure about how they look
  • Insecure about how they talk
  • Insecure about how they walk
  • Insecure about Iam not smart
  • Insecure about relationships (jealousy)
  • Insecure about what others say
  • Insecure about their social life

Consequences Caused By Insecurities

There are many consequences that are caused due to insecurities:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Loss of Opportunities
  • Self-Doubt
  • Jealousy
  • Fear
  • Panic over small issues
  • Untrust
  • Negative Thinking
  • Unhappy

How to Overcome Insecurities

1: Set Boundaries

Set boundaries so that no one can bully you and disrespect your feelings. Say “No” to all those people who belittle you and be in your zone of positivity.

2: Take to yourself

Know more about yourself by talking with yourself from your heart. Take care of yourself internally and externally.

3: Stand For Your Right

If you know you’re correct then stand for it, and raise your voice when needed then only people will find you strong and they’ll stop bullying you.


4: Action Enough

Thinking all the time that I will do this and that is a waste of time. Do the action is enough because actions matter the most.

5: Accept As You Are

Though you are fat, short, and black it doesn’t matter your knowledge matters, and how you help others matters. Don’t feel inferior to others because you are unique.

6: Change Your Mindset

Change your Mindset from a Negative to a Growth Mindset. A growth mindset lets you develop and open to new opportunities in your life.

7: Think Positive

Just thinking positively about the thought can make it manifest if the thought has so much energy. So even though you are failing, think positively.

8: Take small steps

Taking small steps allows you to improve your confidence slowly. Go and talk to a friend and meet a stranger and ask for an address. Slowly build confidence in yourself to talk and express your views.

9: Talk to others

Talk to your friends, neighbors and your parents. It improves your communication skills and you’ll not self-doubt yourself the next time when you’re talking to a stranger.

10: Be Strong

Be strong so much that others would fear to bully you or mock you. Be fearless and deal with your situations confidently and smartly.

By following these 10 ways you can stop being insecure about yourself.

How to stop being Insecure?

We all are different and every one is unique. So why feel insecure, this is due to a lack of confidence and low self-esteem.

Improve your confidence and self-esteem to stop being Insecure.

The Bottom Line

Everyone has insecurities, they’ll suffer from them, after some time they’ll know that feeling insecure is of waste of time. Then they eventually build confidence and self-esteem. This happens to everyone (with me too)


So stop worrying about that and focus on yourself on improving your skills and personality. Challenges will come and go but you need to stand straight to face them and solve them.

Be confident and Strong.


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